City guides
How to make friends as a grown-up, city by city. Real places, checked links, no made-up numbers.
Every guide lists free and low-cost things that happen regularly, a plan for your first month, and an honest range of how many Be My Friend AI members are there (we are new, so it's small).
Your city isn't here?
You can still write to Sami from anywhere. The form lists every city in the world with more than 15,000 people, and you can type your own if it's missing. Online introductions work wherever you are, as long as you share a language with someone.
We add a city guide only when we can write a genuinely useful one, with real local places we have checked. No copy-and-paste pages with the city name swapped.