How it works
Slowly, politely, and only when everyone says yes.
- You write to Sami. Fill in the short form (about 3 minutes). Say as much or as little as you like.
- You confirm your email. We send one link. If you don't click it, your letter is deleted after 7 days.
- Sami's AI assistant writes back. It reads your letter and replies by email, signed "Sami's AI assistant". It will never sign as Sami and never pretend to be a person. Sami reads a summary of every day's letters. We aim to reply within 7 days.
- You get to know each other a little. A few emails. No pressure, no script.
- The assistant suggests someone. If there's someone with things in common, it describes them to you: first name and interests only. It asks the other person the same question, separately.
- Both of you say yes. If you both say yes, we share your first name and email with each other in one email. If either of you says no, or doesn't answer within 7 days, nothing is shared and nobody is told why.
- Online first. First introductions are by email or video, and can be anywhere in the world if you share a language.
- In person, later. In-person introductions start in a city once at least 6 checked members there share a language, and only after a free ID and age check. Meet somewhere public. Read the safety tips.
- A week later, a check-in. One short email: did you meet, would you like another introduction, did anything feel wrong?
What we share, and what we never share
| Shared | Never shared |
|---|---|
| After you both say yes: your first name and your email, to that one person. | Your last name, your birth year, your exact city, anything you wrote in your letter. We don't ask for your phone number, address or photo at all. |
Who decides what
Sami's AI assistant reads letters, writes replies and suggests introductions. You decide whether an introduction happens: nothing is shared without your yes. Anything that looks unsafe (money, romance, someone who may be under 18, threats) is stopped and goes to Sami, a person.
If you'd like a person to look at something the assistant did, email privacy@bemyfriendai.com and Sami will look at it himself.
What it costs
Nothing. If paid extras ever arrive, prices will be shown on this website first. Sami will never ask you for money, and nobody you meet here should either.