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Your letter is read and answered by Sami's AI assistant, which signs its replies that way. Sami reads a summary of every day's letters.

Step 1 of 2: About you

About you

First name *So we can greet you properly.

Last name (optional)Never shown to anyone you're introduced to.

Email *The reply comes here. No spam.

Year you were born *This website is for adults (18+). We keep only the year.

You are (optional)Only used so we can respect people who'd like to be introduced to women only or men only.

Country *Introductions in person happen within the same city.

City *Start typing, then pick from the list.

My city isn't in the list (keep what I typed)

Languages you speak *

EnglishSpanishFrenchGermanPortugueseItalianArabicHindiUrduBengaliChineseJapaneseKoreanRussianTurkishDutchPolishIndonesianFilipinoVietnamesePersianSwahili

Other languages (optional)

Why you're here, in your words

What brings you here? Tick everything that fits. *

A friend, full stopSomeone to message, laugh with and check in on.Friends in my cityPeople nearby for a walk, a coffee, a quiz night.I'm new in townJust moved and want to find your feet.A study partnerSomeone to keep you honest at the library. Or on video.Someone to think out loud withPhilosophy, books, big questions, small questions that feel big at 2 a.m.Someone to talk to about lifeThe hard bits, the confusing bits. A listening friend, not therapy.Something elseTell us in your own words.

Talking about something hard is welcome here, but this is friendship, not therapy. If you are in crisis, please find a helpline now (opens in a new tab).

Tell us more

How would you like to meet people? *

Online (email or video), anywhere in the worldIn person, in my city (after a free ID and age check)

When are you usually free? (optional)

Who would you like to be introduced to? *

AnyoneWomen onlyMen only

Tell Sami about you *Like you'd write to a new friend: what you do, what you love talking about, what's on your mind. 50 to 1,000 characters. Please leave out health details, ID numbers, addresses and contact details.

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A few separate yeses

I am 18 or older. *

I have read the Privacy notice and agree to the Terms. I understand this is for friendship, not dating. *

Sami's AI assistant may suggest introductions to me. Nothing about me is shared unless I say yes. Optional. Without it, you'll just get replies to your letter.

I agree that Sami's AI assistant can read what I share about personal problems, including health or wellbeing, so it can reply. I understand this is friendship, not therapy, and I can withdraw at any time. Optional.

Send me Sami's Letters by email (up to one email a week). Unsubscribe in one click. Optional.

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Be My Friend AI is a free friendship website for adults (18+). It is not a dating site. It is not therapy or medical, legal or financial advice. If you are in crisis, please contact a local helpline (findahelpline.com) or your local emergency number. Need help now?

Letters sent to Sami are read and answered by Sami's AI assistant, which signs its replies that way. Sami reads a daily summary. "Sami" is the pen name the founder writes under. Sami will never ask you for money.

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